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Wednesday, July 26, 2006

Happy HNT!

So we've been AWOL for a while... Well my Grandfather passed away last Wednesday so that has been on the fore of our minds as of late, but hopefully we can get back to normal soon. (Whatever that means!)

I call this week's HNT "Vulnerability" and it sort of epitomizes how I have felt since my last post. Hope you guys enjoy it!



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Wednesday, July 19, 2006

Stepping onto my soap box...

I've never considered myself a political person.  Honestly I don't give a damn as all bureaucrats are, in my opinion evil and out to only help themselves.  Cynical I know.  I don't vote due to apathy and therefore I have no right to complain about who is in office, but I would like to say a few things about something our president is going to do today: veto the embryonic stem cell research bill.
 
I have been a type I diabetic for more then 27 years.  In that time, I have taken more then 26,000 insulin injections, had roughly 40,000 finger sticks to check blood glucose, and have spent approximately $75,000.00 in medical care procedures and supplies.  As a child growing up in a hick town, I endured ridicule, discrimination, and segregation.  I was always different and and often treated as if I was breakable.  I was rarely invited over for dinner and few risked the responsibility of asking me over for the night.  Did I have a bad childhood? No.  I think that all in all I had a pretty good childhood.  But it wasn't easy, not that any one's is but I was held back because of my disease.  However, if Jane and I were to have a baby, there is a 50% chance that that baby would be born diabetic.  That is the main reason I don't want children.  I'm not sure I could handle putting a child through what I went through.  It just seems unfair.
 
According the the ADA (American Diabetes Association),  more then 20 Million people in the U.S. have diabetes.  That is 7% of the population - nearly 1 in 10.  1 in 3 children will develop diabetes in his/her lifetime.  If there was anything that we could do to fix this, anything that could be done so that maybe those diagnosed would not have to suffer, shouldn't we do it?  The good news is there is something we can do.  The bad news is that by the time you read this, it is likely that our president has already vetoed that possibility.
 
There are likely those reading this and thinking that there are other ways to support research and finding a cure - ie: Adult stem cells.  I agree completely, but shouldn't we be doing everything in our power?  By vetoing this bill, President Bush is preventing families from donating embryos to research.  What will likely happen to these embryos now?  Nothing.  They will be discarded.  These embryos are just sitting in fertility clinics waiting to be tossed! 
 
The President states that he is "honor bound" and that he "morally" must stop this bill.  I don't recall his job to be to impart his morals on the U.S. citizens.  It passed the senate, it passed the house, polls show that the majority of the people are in agreement of its passing, and yet one small man will stand in its way and slow the progress towards a cure.  And its not just Diabetes.  He is slowing the progress for a cure to Cancer, Heart Disease, Alzhimers, Parkinson's, Lou Gehrig's Disease, spinal chord injuries, Glaucoma, Macular Degeneration and a plethora of otherwise incurable diseases.
 
I just wanted to say, thank you Mr. President.  I sincerely hope that not you nor anyone you love is ever diagnosed with any of the above.  But I do hope that you would go to the hospitals and explain to the children with leukemia or to the families whose parents no longer recognize who they are, why your morals are condemning them.
 
Stepping off my soap box...

 

 

Tuesday, July 11, 2006

In a funk...

As of last Thursday, we had promised tales and photos from our experiences in the bedroom with whipped cream! Well to be absolutely honest last Thursday by the time we made it to the bedroom I think Jane and I were already asleep - (Read as no sex). Friday, Saturday, Sunday... Work, more work and house work. Sunday we cleaned the entire house, I worked on setting up the new PC, she found a Project Runway marathon, and we went to bed early. (again read as no sex.) Monday: She and I both went and got our hair cut and colored! Hers is freaking awesome and she looks absolutely stunning. We even set the time to go to bed as 9:00 to make sure we got to "play". Well, 9 comes around, we get ready for bed, we talk about the whipped cream and she says, "I don't know, I expect it to be spontaneous." So okay I'm honestly fine with that. We lay down and zzzzzzzzzzz.... That's right folks asleep. At 9 fucking 15 PM. (You guessed it - no sex.)

Have our lives come to this? Ugh. I'm not laying blame... mainly 'cause I don't feel like taking any blame. But honestly, I almost laughed when she said she expected it to be spontaneous. Spontaneous is not a word I would use to describe us. I'm not saying this is good or bad but its the truth. Perhaps I should clear that up. We have spontaneous sex, but that's typically it. If we plan on adding something (ie: toys, a new position, whipped cream) we have to schedule that 'cause we need time to prepare. Lets see... um I have an opening on Thursday September 21, are mornings or afternoons better for you? Hopefully we'll have those promised pics then! Provided something else doesn't come up.

I realise that this is all very cynical but right now I am feeling pretty fucking cynical.

Sigh... Oh well, back to work. (Read as Kill me Billy!)

Thursday, July 06, 2006

Okay folks! Contrary to popular belief... John is not dead! :)

So life has been crazy, blah blah blah, excuses excuses. Honestly I just haven't taken the time to post. I'm sorry.

But in honor of the 4th of July week, I've got an HNT that makes me have a standing salute!



Now I don't want to get everyone too excited, but Jane & I have the day off together, the camera, and a full can of whipped cream! Just something to look forward too -- I know I am!!!
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